Focusing solely on yourself will not move in you the right direction. Directing your energy, awareness and efforts on others will open up new possibilities.
Making everything all about you creates a narrow perspective that restricts every aspect of your life. Choose instead to listen, understand, empathize, forgive, cooperate. Escape the confinement of your ego by living with humility, generosity, and love. Live and give beyond yourself, and enjoy life at its finest.